Would You Rather
Two options, one tap. Play solo to find out what your picks say about you, or pass the phone with your partner and see where you match.
Would you rather…
Pick one of two. Both are a little hard.
Each question gives you two options. Tap the one you would rather. After 15 questions you see what your picks say about you. Playing with friends? Read each one out loud and argue about it.
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All 210 Would You Rather questions
Five decks, from sweet questions for couples to impossible ones for a group. Read them out loud or play them above.
Would you rather questions: Relationships (42)
For couples: time together, big gestures and who apologizes first.
- Would you rather spend every weekend together or keep one weekend a month just for yourselves?
- Would you rather always say exactly what you feel or always think it through before you speak?
- Would you rather get a big proposal in front of everyone or get a quiet proposal with just the two of you?
- Would you rather backpack around the world together or build a cozy home and stay in?
- Would you rather have a partner who fixes every problem you bring them or have a partner who just listens to every problem?
- Would you rather text each other all day or talk once at night and have your own days?
- Would you rather relive your first date or skip ahead to see your tenth anniversary?
- Would you rather post about your relationship all the time or keep it completely off social media?
- Would you rather plan every date down to the minute or make every date up as you go?
- Would you rather share all the same hobbies or have totally different hobbies to tell each other about?
- Would you rather know everything your partner is thinking or keep a little mystery forever?
- Would you rather slow-dance in the kitchen or dance in front of everyone at a wedding?
- Would you rather have a partner who sings to you in public or have a partner who writes songs only you will hear?
- Would you rather move to a new city together or stay close to family and friends?
- Would you rather fall in love at first sight or fall in love slowly over years of friendship?
- Would you rather share every password or each keep your own phone private?
- Would you rather have a partner who remembers every little detail or have a partner who stays calm in every crisis?
- Would you rather date someone a lot like you or date someone totally different from you?
- Would you rather spend a rainy day in bed watching movies together or spend a rainy day on a spontaneous trip?
- Would you rather hear "I love you" out loud every day or have it shown quietly, without the words?
- Would you rather have a partner who is also your best friend or have a partner with their own world of friends?
- Would you rather get a surprise party for your birthday or get a quiet dinner for two?
- Would you rather make every big decision together or each make your own calls on your own stuff?
- Would you rather have a partner who makes you laugh every day or have a partner who always gives good advice?
- Would you rather go on a road trip with no map or go back to your favorite place every year?
- Would you rather talk out an argument right away or cool off and talk it through tomorrow?
- Would you rather live in a tiny apartment in a big, busy city or live in a big house in a quiet town?
- Would you rather date someone famous or date someone nobody has heard of?
- Would you rather get flowers for no reason or get your cracked phone screen fixed for no reason?
- Would you rather have a cozy date night at home every Friday or try somewhere new every Friday?
- Would you rather share the same group of friends or keep a few friends that are just yours?
- Would you rather introduce them to your family right away or wait until you are really sure?
- Would you rather know all about your partner's past or only know what they choose to share?
- Would you rather have a love song written about you or have a poem written that only you will read?
- Would you rather always be the first to say sorry or always be the first to explain what went wrong?
- Would you rather spend every holiday with family or spend every holiday somewhere new?
- Would you rather have a partner who is an amazing cook or have a partner who is an amazing travel buddy?
- Would you rather fall asleep on a call together or say goodnight and hang up?
- Would you rather keep a box of every ticket and note from your relationship or keep nothing and trust your memory?
- Would you rather let your partner order for you everywhere or always order for yourself?
- Would you rather celebrate every little anniversary with a big fuss or skip the dates and celebrate whenever you feel like it?
- Would you rather take every trip together or take one trip a year with your own friends?
Would you rather questions: Dating (42)
Crushes, first dates and the eternal question of who texts first.
- Would you rather be asked out by text or be asked out in person?
- Would you rather go on a first date at a fancy restaurant or go on a first date at a trampoline park?
- Would you rather know right away if it's a match or find out slowly?
- Would you rather date someone who is great at texting or date someone who is great at talking face to face?
- Would you rather have friends set you up or meet someone completely on your own?
- Would you rather go on a blind date or date someone you have known for years?
- Would you rather plan the first date yourself or let them surprise you?
- Would you rather confess a crush in a letter or confess a crush face to face?
- Would you rather date someone with the same taste in music or date someone who shows you new music?
- Would you rather have your first kiss in the rain or have your first kiss somewhere warm and dry?
- Would you rather date someone shy or date someone who is the life of the party?
- Would you rather always text first or always wait for them to text first?
- Would you rather go on a date to an amusement park or go on a date to a cozy café?
- Would you rather have a crush on someone famous or have a crush on someone in your class or at work?
- Would you rather date someone who is always on time or date someone who is always fun?
- Would you rather meet their whole friend group early or keep it just the two of you for a while?
- Would you rather have your first date filmed for a TV show or have nobody ever know about it?
- Would you rather date someone who is a great listener or date someone who always has a plan?
- Would you rather know all about their exes or know nothing about their exes?
- Would you rather make the first move or wait to be asked?
- Would you rather go on a picnic date or go on a rock-climbing date?
- Would you rather have a date that is awkward but sweet or have a date that is smooth but forgettable?
- Would you rather date a poet or date an inventor?
- Would you rather get a cheesy pickup line in front of everyone or get a quiet compliment just for you?
- Would you rather be friends for a year first or start dating right away?
- Would you rather have a crush who lives far away or have a crush who lives next door?
- Would you rather go on one perfect date or go on ten weird and wonderful ones?
- Would you rather let your best friend pick your date or never let friends weigh in?
- Would you rather fall for someone's laugh or fall for someone's brain?
- Would you rather plan a date around great food or plan a date around something neither of you has tried?
- Would you rather go on a double date or go on a date with just the two of you?
- Would you rather say how you feel on the first date or keep your cards close for a while?
- Would you rather date someone all your friends love or date someone only you really get?
- Would you rather have your crush notice you across a crowded room or get a secret note from your crush?
- Would you rather watch the sunset on a quiet beach or dance in the front row at a concert?
- Would you rather always split everything down the middle or take turns treating each other?
- Would you rather have a first date that lasts all day or have a short, sweet one-hour first date?
- Would you rather reply to texts the second they arrive or reply once you have thought about it?
- Would you rather be set up by your grandma or meet someone totally by chance?
- Would you rather date someone who loves to dance or date someone who loves to read?
- Would you rather date someone who cooks you dinner or date someone who takes you somewhere new?
- Would you rather get a heartfelt voice note or get a perfectly planned date invite?
Would you rather questions: Funny (42)
Goose laughs, pet dragons and a hundred tiny horses.
- Would you rather have a pause button for your life or have a rewind button for your life?
- Would you rather sing everything you say or whisper everything you say?
- Would you rather own a tiny pet dragon or own a cat that can talk?
- Would you rather eat pizza for every meal forever or never eat the same meal twice?
- Would you rather be able to talk to animals or be able to speak every human language?
- Would you rather live in a treehouse or live in a castle?
- Would you rather have your own theme song play when you walk into a room or be able to turn invisible whenever you want?
- Would you rather be able to fly or be able to teleport home whenever you want?
- Would you rather wear pajamas everywhere forever or wear a fancy outfit everywhere forever?
- Would you rather have a laugh that sounds like a goose or sneeze completely silently forever?
- Would you rather fight one horse-sized duck or fight a hundred duck-sized horses?
- Would you rather always know when someone is lying or always be believed?
- Would you rather have a robot chef or have a robot tour guide?
- Would you rather be amazing at every sport or be amazing at every instrument?
- Would you rather spend a week in space or spend a week in a cabin with no wifi?
- Would you rather never feel embarrassed again or always know the perfect comeback?
- Would you rather sneeze glitter or hiccup bubbles?
- Would you rather have someone do your chores forever or have someone plan your weekends forever?
- Would you rather get stuck in an elevator with your crush or get stuck in an elevator with your favorite celebrity?
- Would you rather speak only in questions for a day or only talk in emojis for a day?
- Would you rather have nine lives like a cat or live 200 years like a tortoise?
- Would you rather live inside your favorite video game or live inside your favorite sitcom?
- Would you rather eat a spoonful of hot sauce or eat a spoonful of plain flour?
- Would you rather be a wizard nobody knows about or be a superhero everyone knows?
- Would you rather have a pet hamster the size of a dog or have a pet elephant the size of a hamster?
- Would you rather be the best at karaoke or be the best at hide and seek?
- Would you rather travel everywhere by skateboard or travel everywhere by very slow bus?
- Would you rather live in a house made of candy or live in a house made of books?
- Would you rather time travel to the past or time travel to the future?
- Would you rather know how every movie ends before you watch it or forget every movie so you can rewatch it fresh?
- Would you rather control the weather or talk to plants?
- Would you rather moonwalk everywhere you go or tiptoe everywhere you go?
- Would you rather have a talking car that only tells dad jokes or have a talking fridge that judges your snacks?
- Would you rather always have a song stuck in your head or never remember the name of any song?
- Would you rather only eat with chopsticks or only eat with a giant spoon?
- Would you rather have a unicorn or have a robot dog?
- Would you rather be famous for a weird dance or be secretly great at chess?
- Would you rather sleep in a giant hammock or sleep in a pile of pillows?
- Would you rather have a parrot that repeats your secrets or have a goldfish that forgets them?
- Would you rather win a lifetime supply of tacos or win a trip somewhere random?
- Would you rather have your life narrated like a nature documentary or have a tiny narrator only you can hear?
- Would you rather be a giant in a world of tiny people or be tiny in a world of giants?
Would you rather questions: Deep (42)
Slower questions about who you are and what you want.
- Would you rather know the truth even when it hurts or be spared a truth that would hurt?
- Would you rather be loved by many people or be truly known by a few?
- Would you rather relive your best day or see one day of your future?
- Would you rather always follow your heart or always follow your head?
- Would you rather have lots of good friends or have one best friend for life?
- Would you rather be remembered for being kind or be remembered for being brilliant?
- Would you rather feel everything deeply or stay calm about everything?
- Would you rather live a life full of adventure or live a life full of comfort?
- Would you rather say what you think every time or keep your thoughts to yourself every time?
- Would you rather have a big, close family or have a small circle and lots of freedom?
- Would you rather live where you grew up or live somewhere you have never been?
- Would you rather be someone's first love or be someone's last love?
- Would you rather know what everyone really thinks of you or never have to care what anyone thinks?
- Would you rather be brave or be wise?
- Would you rather do work you love that pays a little or do work you don't mind that pays a lot?
- Would you rather make a big difference to one person or make a small difference to millions?
- Would you rather always have someone to talk to or always feel at peace alone?
- Would you rather be famous or be quietly respected?
- Would you rather meet your soulmate young or meet them once you really know yourself?
- Would you rather understand why things happened or make peace without knowing why?
- Would you rather lead the group or be the one everyone quietly trusts?
- Would you rather say yes to every invitation for a year or say no to anything you don't love for a year?
- Would you rather have a partner who challenges you or have a partner who comforts you?
- Would you rather share your feelings easily or solve problems easily?
- Would you rather keep one friend forever or make a new close friend every year?
- Would you rather always be the one who needs space or always be the one who needs closeness?
- Would you rather know what people say about you when you leave the room or happily never know?
- Would you rather grow a lot on your own or grow a little with someone you love?
- Would you rather live with no regrets or live with no worries?
- Would you rather talk to your younger self for an hour or talk to your future self for an hour?
- Would you rather know your purpose today or discover it slowly over your life?
- Would you rather be deeply loved or be deeply respected?
- Would you rather trust easily and sometimes get hurt or trust slowly and sometimes miss out?
- Would you rather have your life made into a movie or keep a diary nobody ever reads?
- Would you rather give a speech about what you believe or write it in a book under a made-up name?
- Would you rather always be the listener or always be the one who is heard?
- Would you rather remember every single day of your life or forget all the hard days?
- Would you rather always know the right thing to say or always know when someone just needs a hug?
- Would you rather have a home that is always full of people or have a home that is always calm and quiet?
- Would you rather be very close with your family or be fully independent from your family?
- Would you rather forgive easily or set boundaries so clear you rarely need to?
- Would you rather be good at many things or be great at one thing?
Impossible would you rather questions (42)
Both options are a problem. Pick one anyway.
- Would you rather give up music forever or give up the internet forever?
- Would you rather always be ten minutes late or always be thirty minutes early?
- Would you rather say every thought out loud for the rest of your life or never speak again?
- Would you rather read minds but never be able to switch it off or have everyone able to read yours?
- Would you rather eat your favorite food every day for a year or never eat it again but try a new dish every day?
- Would you rather be stuck at the top of a Ferris wheel for an hour or be stuck in an elevator for an hour?
- Would you rather star in a horror movie or star in a cheesy romance?
- Would you rather never be able to lie or believe every lie you hear?
- Would you rather never feel cold again or never feel tired again?
- Would you rather give up chocolate forever or give up cheese forever?
- Would you rather never go online again or never leave your hometown again?
- Would you rather be the funniest person in every room but never taken seriously or be the smartest but never laughed with?
- Would you rather have summer all year or have winter all year?
- Would you rather play every instrument perfectly or cook every dish perfectly?
- Would you rather go on a road trip with your exact opposite or go on a road trip with a clone of yourself?
- Would you rather have no hot showers for a month or have no sweets for a month?
- Would you rather swap lives with your best friend for a week or swap lives with a total stranger for a week?
- Would you rather be a famous influencer with zero privacy or be totally unknown with all the time in the world?
- Would you rather have your thoughts appear as subtitles or lose your voice every time you get nervous?
- Would you rather always have to tell the whole truth or always have to say something nice, true or not?
- Would you rather live on a boat forever or live in a lighthouse forever?
- Would you rather wear a costume every day or wear the exact same outfit every day?
- Would you rather never be able to delete a text or have every text you delete get sent anyway?
- Would you rather be able to undo one mistake a day or never find out about your mistakes at all?
- Would you rather skip every boring moment of your life or replay every great moment of your life?
- Would you rather be invisible, but only when nobody is looking or be able to fly, but only an inch off the ground?
- Would you rather lose all your photos or lose all your old messages?
- Would you rather give up your favorite app forever or give up your favorite food forever?
- Would you rather date someone who forgets every anniversary or date someone who celebrates every single day you have been together?
- Would you rather always know when someone has a crush on you or have your crush always know when you like them?
- Would you rather relive the same great day forever or live every day as a total surprise?
- Would you rather give a speech to a thousand people or sit alone in silence for a whole day?
- Would you rather be able to talk to your pet for one hour a day or have your pet clean up after itself forever?
- Would you rather have every door you open lead somewhere random or never leave your room but get anything delivered?
- Would you rather only text in all caps or only text with no punctuation at all?
- Would you rather know the exact date of your best day ever or let it surprise you?
- Would you rather have a perfect memory or have perfect intuition?
- Would you rather have a dragon as your best friend or have a genie with one wish?
- Would you rather only see your friends online, every day or only see them in person, once a year?
- Would you rather be the best player on a losing team or be the worst player on a winning team?
- Would you rather be stuck in a room with a hundred spiders or be stuck in a room with one angry goose?
- Would you rather lose your phone for a month or lose your sense of taste for a month?
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Frequently Asked Questions
How do you play Would You Rather?
One person asks a question with two options, and everyone has to pick one, with no both and no neither. Then each player explains their choice. In the game above you tap one of two cards; after fifteen picks you get a profile, or play as a couple and see your match.
What are good would you rather questions?
Good ones make both options tempting, or both slightly terrible, so the choice actually stings. Mix silly questions, like one horse-sized duck or a hundred duck-sized horses, with deeper ones about love and life. All 210 questions in the game are printed under it in five decks.
Can couples play Would You Rather?
Yes. Choose Play as a couple: the first player answers ten questions, passes the phone, and the second answers the same ten. You then see your match and the questions you split on, each with something to ask each other. For a custom round, the would you rather questions for couples tool writes one around your relationship.
What does my Would You Rather profile mean?
Each option leans one way on four playful scales: adventure or comfort, heart or head, together or independent, spotlight or low-key. Your title comes from the two scales where your picks leaned hardest. It is for fun, not a personality test, but it makes a good conversation starter.
Is this Would You Rather game okay for teens?
Every question is PG-13 and written for this game. There is nothing explicit, nothing illegal and nothing mean about who people are. The Relationships and Dating decks are flirty in places, so for a mixed group the Funny and Impossible decks are the safest bet.
Does the game show what other players picked?
No. The game does not collect or compare votes, so it never shows what share of other players chose an option. Your profile and your couples match come only from the picks made on your own screen.
Can I play Would You Rather on a computer?
Yes. Click a card, or use the keyboard: the left arrow or A picks the first option, and the right arrow or B picks the second. The game works the same way on phones, tablets and laptops.