Is My Relationship Healthy? 15-Question Check-In
A structured relationship check-in. 15 questions across core dimensions of a healthy partnership.
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One question per screen. No account required. Your answers stay on your device.
Possible results (5)
Healthy relationship
Your relationship shows the markers of health across all five dimensions.
Read the full result →Mostly healthy, growing
Strong foundation with 1-2 dimensions that need attention.
Read the full result →Struggling
Some real strengths, but multiple dimensions show meaningful strain.
Read the full result →Unhealthy relationship
Multiple dimensions of your relationship are not working. You are carrying more than is sustainable.
Read the full result →Unsafe or abusive
What you described may be crossing from unhealthy into harmful. Your wellbeing matters here.
Read the full result →
Frequently Asked Questions
How long does this relationship quiz take?
About three minutes. You get 15 short statements and mark how true each one is, on a five-point scale running from strongly disagree to strongly agree. They cover five areas of a partnership: communication, respect, intimacy, conflict and repair, and growth and support. Go with your gut reaction, not the answer you would give if your partner were reading over your shoulder.
Can a quiz really tell if my relationship is healthy?
No, and this one does not try to. What it does is break a vague feeling into five named parts, communication, respect, intimacy, conflict and repair, growth and support, so you can point at the one that is actually straining instead of saying the whole thing feels off. That is somewhere to begin a conversation, not a ruling on your partner.
Does this ask for anything before it shows the result?
You do not need an account or an email address. Answer the 15 statements and the result appears right away. Your ratings are held by your browser and are never tied to a name, so nothing is shared with your partner and nothing shows up anywhere they could stumble on it.
What if my partner would answer these questions differently?
Very likely they would, and that gap is useful rather than a problem. The quiz asks about your experience of the relationship, which is the part you actually have access to. If you both want to, take it separately and compare where your answers land differently. Those differences usually make a better conversation starter than the result itself.
The result flagged a lot. Where do I take this?
Take it seriously, but slowly. A worrying result is a signal to get support, not a reason to decide anything today. Talk it through with someone you trust, and consider a licensed therapist or counselor. If you ever feel unsafe or controlled, contact a domestic violence hotline; those services are free and confidential. Lovon can help you put words to it, but it does not replace a professional.
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