How many dates before relationship?

There is no magic number. Most people feel ready to define a relationship after 5–10 dates, but life circumstances, communication styles, and attachment patterns all influence this. The most important question is whether you feel safe, genuinely interested, and able to be yourself with this person. If you are uncertain about your feelings or the direction of a connection, Lovon offers a reflective space to think it through without pressure.

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