How to break up with your girlfriend?

Do it in person if possible. Be clear about your decision — do not leave ambiguity. Focus on your feelings and incompatibility rather than her flaws. Expect the conversation to be hard and give her space to react. After the breakup, allow yourself to feel the grief too — endings are painful even when they are right. Lovon can support you through the emotional weight of this transition on both sides.

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