Mixed compatibility
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You scored strongly in at least one dimension and noticeably low in at least one. That is worth taking seriously, because mixed compatibility can be sustainable or it can be slow erosion, depending on what the gaps are. Misalignment in attachment or communication can often be worked with. Misalignment in core values or goals (wanting different lives) is harder and not always workable through effort alone. Be honest about which kind of gap you have.
What to do next
Look at WHICH dimension scored low. If it is attachment or communication, couples therapy is evidence-backed and high-leverage — most couples who stay and thrive after crisis went through this kind of work. If it is values or long-term goals (kids, location, career), you need a harder conversation about whether you are compatible for the life you both actually want.
This quiz is for self-reflection and educational purposes. It is not a diagnosis, clinical instrument, or replacement for professional care. If any of this raises concerns, consider talking to a licensed therapist.
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