Energy Audit
What drains your energy, and what gives it back? Rate the people, tasks, places and habits in your week, see them on one battery map, and leave with three drainers to cut and three chargers to put in your calendar.
About 5 minutes
What drains you, and what charges you?
Pick what fills a normal week, rate each one, and see your battery map: where your energy goes, where it comes from, and a one-week plan to swap a little of one for the other. Nothing you enter leaves this browser.
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Common energy drainers and chargers
The same thing drains one person and charges the next, which is why the audit asks instead of assuming. Here is every item in the audit, with an idea for each direction.
People
- Time with my partner. If it drains you: If time together has turned into logistics and friction, give the logistics one short slot a week and keep the rest for being together. If it charges you: Put one evening a week in the calendar with phones away and no planning talk.
- A close friend. If it drains you: Keep the friendship and change the format: a walk or a short coffee instead of a long night out. If it charges you: Make it a standing date, the same day every week or two, so it happens without planning.
- Family I live with. If it drains you: Agree on one quiet hour a day when nobody needs anything from you, and keep it. If it charges you: Plan one shared thing a week everyone enjoys, like a meal, a game or a walk.
- Parents or wider family. If it drains you: Shorter visits and calls with a clear end time, and a topic or two you decide not to get into. If it charges you: Call the one who lifts you on a set day, so it becomes a habit rather than a someday.
- Coworkers or classmates. If it drains you: Keep one or two blocks a day closed to drop-ins and chat, and tell people when you are free. If it charges you: Have lunch or take a walk with the colleague you like, once a week.
- Big groups and parties. If it drains you: Say no to one big gathering this month, or go for the first hour and leave on a high. If it charges you: Say yes to one group plan this week, and let someone else do the organizing.
- Someone who criticizes or complains a lot. If it drains you: Spend less time alone with them, keep it short, and plan your exit line before you go in. If it charges you: If this person charges you after all, notice what is different when it goes well.
- Time on my own. If it drains you: If time alone has turned into lonely time, put one small plan with someone into the week. If it charges you: Block one hour a week with nothing in it and protect it like a meeting.
- Looking after someone. If it drains you: Ask for one specific kind of help, like one evening a week covered, and spend it on something that is only yours. If it charges you: Notice which part of caring feels good, and keep room for it.
Tasks
- Meetings and calls. If it drains you: Put meetings back to back on two or three days and keep the rest meeting-free. Decline one that could be a message. If it charges you: Keep the conversations that leave you buzzing, and put them before the work that needs that lift.
- Email, chats and notifications. If it drains you: Check email and chats in two or three set windows a day, with notifications off in between. If it charges you: Fine to keep, as long as it does not crowd out the work that needs your full attention.
- Focused work on one thing. If it drains you: Work in shorter blocks, 25 to 50 minutes, with a real break away from the screen between them. If it charges you: Put one long focus block on your best days and guard it from meetings.
- Housework and errands. If it drains you: Do chores in one or two set slots a week, with music or a podcast, instead of a little every evening. If it charges you: If chores settle you, use one as a break between harder tasks.
- Bills, forms and admin. If it drains you: Pick one admin hour a week and do all of it then, starting with the item you dread most. If it charges you: Keep a weekly admin slot, so the satisfaction of a cleared list comes on schedule.
- Commute. If it drains you: Make the time yours with a podcast, music or a call, or ask for one more day working from home. If it charges you: Use it as a switch-off ritual between work and home: same playlist, no work email.
- Learning something new. If it drains you: Make the steps smaller: fifteen minutes a few times a week instead of a big push. If it charges you: Give it a fixed slot, same time each week, so it is not the first thing to go.
- A hobby or creative project. If it drains you: Take the pressure off: do it for fun without a goal, or pause it for a month without guilt. If it charges you: Book two short slots a week for it, before the evening fills up with other things.
- A task I keep putting off. If it drains you: Take the first ten-minute step today, or decide to drop it for good. Either one ends the drain. If it charges you: If thinking about it excites you, give it a date this week.
Places
- Being at home. If it drains you: Change one corner: clear a surface, open the curtains, move a chair to the window. If it charges you: Make one evening a week a real night in, with nothing to catch up on.
- My workplace or school. If it drains you: Change your spot for part of the day, and take lunch away from your desk. If it charges you: Notice which days and rooms work best and plan your hardest tasks there.
- Outdoors, parks or nature. If it drains you: Go at a quieter time or take a shorter loop. If it charges you: Put a walk outside into three days this week, even a short one.
- Crowded or noisy places. If it drains you: Go at quieter times, bring headphones, and leave yourself a quiet half hour after. If it charges you: If the buzz lifts you, plan one outing to a lively place this week.
- A cluttered space. If it drains you: Clear one surface you see every day. Just one, and keep it clear for a week. If it charges you: If a lived-in mess feels cozy, no need to change it.
- A favorite spot (cafe, gym, library). If it drains you: Go at a different time, or swap it for another spot for a while. If it charges you: Make it a regular: the same day and time every week.
Habits
- My sleep. If it drains you: Shrink the late part of the evening: the same wake-up time every day, and screens off a while before bed. If it charges you: Protect it: the same bedtime on busy days too.
- Exercise or a walk. If it drains you: Go gentler or shorter for a week. A walk counts. If it charges you: Put three short sessions in the calendar this week, at times you will actually keep.
- Scrolling social media. If it drains you: Move the apps off your home screen, or set a daily time limit and let it stop you. If it charges you: Keep the accounts that lift you and mute the rest.
- Following the news. If it drains you: Check the news once or twice a day at set times, with breaking-news alerts off. If it charges you: Keep a set time for it, so it stays something you choose.
- Screens in bed. If it drains you: Charge your phone outside the bedroom for one week and see how mornings feel. If it charges you: If a show helps you wind down, keep it to one episode with a set end time.
- Coffee or energy drinks late in the day. If it drains you: Have your last coffee earlier for a week and notice your evenings and sleep. If it charges you: Fine to keep, as long as your sleep stays steady.
- Alcohol. If it drains you: Pick a few alcohol-free days this week and notice the mornings after. If it charges you: If it feels like it helps, check whether that still holds the next morning and the night after.
- Regular meals. If it drains you: Make it simpler: the same easy breakfast and lunch on workdays, decided once. If it charges you: Keep regular meal times, especially on the busiest days.
- Saying yes when I mean no. If it drains you: Before every yes this week, say "let me check and get back to you". Then decide. If it charges you: If helping out lifts you, keep doing it, on your terms.
- Music or podcasts. If it drains you: Give your ears some quiet: one stretch a day with nothing playing. If it charges you: Make a playlist for the hardest part of your day and use it there.
Cut, shrink or batch: three ways to handle a drainer
- Cut. Stop it, drop it or say no to it. Drop it for one week and notice what you actually miss. Most of it you will not.
- Shrink. Keep it, but shorter, smaller or less often. Keep it, but make it shorter, smaller or less often, with a clear end point.
- Batch. Group it into set slots instead of all through the day. Group it into one or two set slots instead of letting it spread through the week.
Four ways people recover their energy
Research on recovery from work separates four experiences that help people refill in their free time. A good list of chargers usually has some of each.
- Psychological detachment. Switching off from work in your head, not only leaving the building. For example: No work email in the evening, a hobby that takes all your attention, a walk without your phone.
- Relaxation. Low effort, low arousal time that lets body and mind slow down. For example: A bath, slow breathing, music, lying in the grass, reading for pleasure.
- Mastery. A challenge outside work that you get better at. For example: Learning a language or instrument, climbing, cooking something new, a course.
- Control. Deciding for yourself what to do with your free time, and when. For example: An evening you plan around what you want, instead of what is left over.
Source: Sonnentag, S., & Fritz, C. (2007). The Recovery Experience Questionnaire: Development and validation of a measure for assessing recuperation and unwinding from work. Journal of Occupational Health Psychology, 12(3), 204–221. doi.org/10.1037/1076-8998.12.3.204
How the audit adds up
Each item counts how strongly it drains or charges you (1 or 2) times how many times a week it happens: every day counts 7, a few times a week 3, once a week 1, a few times a month or less half. Charge is the total of everything that lifts you, drain the total of everything that costs you, and the net balance is the difference. The battery shows the share of the total that charges you, from 0 to 10, where 5 is even. Below 4 reads as running down, above 6 as charging up. These are Lovon’s own reading guide, not norms, so compare yourself with yourself from month to month.
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Frequently Asked Questions
What is an energy audit for yourself?
It is a list of the people, tasks, places and habits in your week, each rated by whether it drains or charges you and how often it happens. Adding them up shows where your energy goes. The useful part is the plan that follows: less of a few drainers, more of a few chargers.
Why does my energy drain so fast?
Usually because of small drains that happen every day, not one big one. Constant messages, meetings, a cluttered space or saying yes when you mean no add up across a week. An audit shows which ones cost you most, so you can cut, shrink or batch them.
What are common energy drainers?
Common ones are back-to-back meetings, notifications, admin you keep putting off, people who criticize or complain, crowded places, scrolling and screens in bed. But the same thing can drain one person and charge another, which is why the audit asks you to rate each one yourself.
How do I recharge my energy?
Recovery research describes four kinds of recovery: switching off from work in your head, relaxing, doing something challenging you enjoy, and choosing for yourself how to spend your time. Pick the chargers from your audit that match those and put them on set days, so they do not depend on time left over.
What is mental fatigue?
Mental fatigue is the tired, foggy feeling after long or demanding mental effort, when it gets harder to focus and to make yourself keep going. One leading explanation is that the brain weighs a task's expected reward against its energy cost and loses motivation when the cost seems higher. Breaks, sleep and work that feels worthwhile all help.
How often should I do an energy audit?
Once a month is enough for most people, or sooner when your week changes, like a new job, a move or a new baby. Saving each audit lets you start the next one from the same list and see which drainers shrank and which chargers grew.
Why am I tired all the time even when I rest?
Rest that does not refill you can mean the rest is the wrong kind for what is draining you, such as scrolling when you need quiet. It can also have a physical cause, so if you are tired most days for weeks, see your doctor. Sleep problems, illness and low mood can all show up as constant tiredness.
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