Energy Audit

What drains your energy, and what gives it back? Rate the people, tasks, places and habits in your week, see them on one battery map, and leave with three drainers to cut and three chargers to put in your calendar.

About 5 minutes

What drains you, and what charges you?

Pick what fills a normal week, rate each one, and see your battery map: where your energy goes, where it comes from, and a one-week plan to swap a little of one for the other. Nothing you enter leaves this browser.

A self-check for reflection, not a diagnosis.

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Common energy drainers and chargers

The same thing drains one person and charges the next, which is why the audit asks instead of assuming. Here is every item in the audit, with an idea for each direction.

People

  • Time with my partner. If it drains you: If time together has turned into logistics and friction, give the logistics one short slot a week and keep the rest for being together. If it charges you: Put one evening a week in the calendar with phones away and no planning talk.
  • A close friend. If it drains you: Keep the friendship and change the format: a walk or a short coffee instead of a long night out. If it charges you: Make it a standing date, the same day every week or two, so it happens without planning.
  • Family I live with. If it drains you: Agree on one quiet hour a day when nobody needs anything from you, and keep it. If it charges you: Plan one shared thing a week everyone enjoys, like a meal, a game or a walk.
  • Parents or wider family. If it drains you: Shorter visits and calls with a clear end time, and a topic or two you decide not to get into. If it charges you: Call the one who lifts you on a set day, so it becomes a habit rather than a someday.
  • Coworkers or classmates. If it drains you: Keep one or two blocks a day closed to drop-ins and chat, and tell people when you are free. If it charges you: Have lunch or take a walk with the colleague you like, once a week.
  • Big groups and parties. If it drains you: Say no to one big gathering this month, or go for the first hour and leave on a high. If it charges you: Say yes to one group plan this week, and let someone else do the organizing.
  • Someone who criticizes or complains a lot. If it drains you: Spend less time alone with them, keep it short, and plan your exit line before you go in. If it charges you: If this person charges you after all, notice what is different when it goes well.
  • Time on my own. If it drains you: If time alone has turned into lonely time, put one small plan with someone into the week. If it charges you: Block one hour a week with nothing in it and protect it like a meeting.
  • Looking after someone. If it drains you: Ask for one specific kind of help, like one evening a week covered, and spend it on something that is only yours. If it charges you: Notice which part of caring feels good, and keep room for it.

Tasks

  • Meetings and calls. If it drains you: Put meetings back to back on two or three days and keep the rest meeting-free. Decline one that could be a message. If it charges you: Keep the conversations that leave you buzzing, and put them before the work that needs that lift.
  • Email, chats and notifications. If it drains you: Check email and chats in two or three set windows a day, with notifications off in between. If it charges you: Fine to keep, as long as it does not crowd out the work that needs your full attention.
  • Focused work on one thing. If it drains you: Work in shorter blocks, 25 to 50 minutes, with a real break away from the screen between them. If it charges you: Put one long focus block on your best days and guard it from meetings.
  • Housework and errands. If it drains you: Do chores in one or two set slots a week, with music or a podcast, instead of a little every evening. If it charges you: If chores settle you, use one as a break between harder tasks.
  • Bills, forms and admin. If it drains you: Pick one admin hour a week and do all of it then, starting with the item you dread most. If it charges you: Keep a weekly admin slot, so the satisfaction of a cleared list comes on schedule.
  • Commute. If it drains you: Make the time yours with a podcast, music or a call, or ask for one more day working from home. If it charges you: Use it as a switch-off ritual between work and home: same playlist, no work email.
  • Learning something new. If it drains you: Make the steps smaller: fifteen minutes a few times a week instead of a big push. If it charges you: Give it a fixed slot, same time each week, so it is not the first thing to go.
  • A hobby or creative project. If it drains you: Take the pressure off: do it for fun without a goal, or pause it for a month without guilt. If it charges you: Book two short slots a week for it, before the evening fills up with other things.
  • A task I keep putting off. If it drains you: Take the first ten-minute step today, or decide to drop it for good. Either one ends the drain. If it charges you: If thinking about it excites you, give it a date this week.

Places

  • Being at home. If it drains you: Change one corner: clear a surface, open the curtains, move a chair to the window. If it charges you: Make one evening a week a real night in, with nothing to catch up on.
  • My workplace or school. If it drains you: Change your spot for part of the day, and take lunch away from your desk. If it charges you: Notice which days and rooms work best and plan your hardest tasks there.
  • Outdoors, parks or nature. If it drains you: Go at a quieter time or take a shorter loop. If it charges you: Put a walk outside into three days this week, even a short one.
  • Crowded or noisy places. If it drains you: Go at quieter times, bring headphones, and leave yourself a quiet half hour after. If it charges you: If the buzz lifts you, plan one outing to a lively place this week.
  • A cluttered space. If it drains you: Clear one surface you see every day. Just one, and keep it clear for a week. If it charges you: If a lived-in mess feels cozy, no need to change it.
  • A favorite spot (cafe, gym, library). If it drains you: Go at a different time, or swap it for another spot for a while. If it charges you: Make it a regular: the same day and time every week.

Habits

  • My sleep. If it drains you: Shrink the late part of the evening: the same wake-up time every day, and screens off a while before bed. If it charges you: Protect it: the same bedtime on busy days too.
  • Exercise or a walk. If it drains you: Go gentler or shorter for a week. A walk counts. If it charges you: Put three short sessions in the calendar this week, at times you will actually keep.
  • Scrolling social media. If it drains you: Move the apps off your home screen, or set a daily time limit and let it stop you. If it charges you: Keep the accounts that lift you and mute the rest.
  • Following the news. If it drains you: Check the news once or twice a day at set times, with breaking-news alerts off. If it charges you: Keep a set time for it, so it stays something you choose.
  • Screens in bed. If it drains you: Charge your phone outside the bedroom for one week and see how mornings feel. If it charges you: If a show helps you wind down, keep it to one episode with a set end time.
  • Coffee or energy drinks late in the day. If it drains you: Have your last coffee earlier for a week and notice your evenings and sleep. If it charges you: Fine to keep, as long as your sleep stays steady.
  • Alcohol. If it drains you: Pick a few alcohol-free days this week and notice the mornings after. If it charges you: If it feels like it helps, check whether that still holds the next morning and the night after.
  • Regular meals. If it drains you: Make it simpler: the same easy breakfast and lunch on workdays, decided once. If it charges you: Keep regular meal times, especially on the busiest days.
  • Saying yes when I mean no. If it drains you: Before every yes this week, say "let me check and get back to you". Then decide. If it charges you: If helping out lifts you, keep doing it, on your terms.
  • Music or podcasts. If it drains you: Give your ears some quiet: one stretch a day with nothing playing. If it charges you: Make a playlist for the hardest part of your day and use it there.

Cut, shrink or batch: three ways to handle a drainer

  • Cut. Stop it, drop it or say no to it. Drop it for one week and notice what you actually miss. Most of it you will not.
  • Shrink. Keep it, but shorter, smaller or less often. Keep it, but make it shorter, smaller or less often, with a clear end point.
  • Batch. Group it into set slots instead of all through the day. Group it into one or two set slots instead of letting it spread through the week.

Four ways people recover their energy

Research on recovery from work separates four experiences that help people refill in their free time. A good list of chargers usually has some of each.

  • Psychological detachment. Switching off from work in your head, not only leaving the building. For example: No work email in the evening, a hobby that takes all your attention, a walk without your phone.
  • Relaxation. Low effort, low arousal time that lets body and mind slow down. For example: A bath, slow breathing, music, lying in the grass, reading for pleasure.
  • Mastery. A challenge outside work that you get better at. For example: Learning a language or instrument, climbing, cooking something new, a course.
  • Control. Deciding for yourself what to do with your free time, and when. For example: An evening you plan around what you want, instead of what is left over.

Source: Sonnentag, S., & Fritz, C. (2007). The Recovery Experience Questionnaire: Development and validation of a measure for assessing recuperation and unwinding from work. Journal of Occupational Health Psychology, 12(3), 204–221. doi.org/10.1037/1076-8998.12.3.204

How the audit adds up

Each item counts how strongly it drains or charges you (1 or 2) times how many times a week it happens: every day counts 7, a few times a week 3, once a week 1, a few times a month or less half. Charge is the total of everything that lifts you, drain the total of everything that costs you, and the net balance is the difference. The battery shows the share of the total that charges you, from 0 to 10, where 5 is even. Below 4 reads as running down, above 6 as charging up. These are Lovon’s own reading guide, not norms, so compare yourself with yourself from month to month.

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What is a personal energy audit?

A personal energy audit is a list of what fills your week, with each item rated by how it leaves you: drained, neutral or charged, and how often it happens. Adding those up shows where your energy goes and where it comes from. The point is not the total but the swap: a little less of your worst drainers, a little more of your best chargers, on purpose.

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How to do the energy audit

  • Pick what is part of a normal week. The list covers people, tasks, places and habits, and you can add your own in each area.
  • Rate each one from drains a lot to charges a lot, and say how often it happens.
  • Read your battery map: chargers on the right, drainers on the left, longest bars first.
  • Choose what to do with your top three drainers and put your top three chargers on days of the week.

Each item counts how strongly it drains or charges you (1 or 2) times how many times a week it happens. Something that drains you a little every day ends up costing more than a big drain once a month, which is exactly the kind of thing people miss when they guess. Charge is the total of everything that lifts you, drain the total of everything that costs you, and the net weekly balance is the difference. The battery shows the share that charges you on a 0 to 10 scale, where 5 is even.

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Cut, shrink or batch

A drainer rarely has to go completely. There are three moves, and the audit suggests one for each drainer that you can change:

  • Cut: stop it or say no to it, like screens in bed or a standing commitment you dread.
  • Shrink: keep it, but shorter, smaller or less often, like a family visit with a clear end time.
  • Batch: group it into set slots, like email checked three times a day instead of all day.

Chargers work the other way. The ones that charge you most but happen least often are the best place to start, because one more walk, call or hour of a hobby a week makes a visible difference. The swap plan puts them on days, and you can copy it into your notes.

Here is how a swap adds up. Say meetings drain you a bit and happen every day: minus 7 a week. A walk with a friend charges you a lot but happens about twice a month: plus 1. Batch the meetings into a few days and the drain drops to minus 3. Make the walk weekly and it rises to plus 2. Two small changes, and the week swings by 5 in your favor, without quitting anything.

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Why some things drain you and others charge you

Work psychology has a simple model for this. In the Job Demands-Resources model, demands are the parts of work that cost sustained effort, and resources are the parts that help you get it done and grow, like support, control and feedback (Bakker and Demerouti, 2007, Journal of Managerial Psychology, 22(3), 309–328). The audit applies the same idea to your whole week. Stevan Hobfoll's conservation of resources theory adds why drain feels so heavy: people try to keep, protect and build what they value, and what stresses them is losing it or the threat of losing it (Hobfoll, 1989, American Psychologist, 44(3), 513–524).

Mental fatigue fits the same picture. Maarten Boksem and Mattie Tops proposed that the brain keeps weighing the expected reward of a task against its energy cost, and that people stop wanting to continue when the cost seems to outweigh the reward (Boksem and Tops, 2008, Brain Research Reviews, 59(1), 125–139). That is why the same hour can feel light when it matters to you and exhausting when it does not.

On the charging side, Sabine Sonnentag and Charlotte Fritz separated four ways people recover from work in their free time: switching off mentally, relaxing, a challenge they get better at, and choosing for themselves what to do (Sonnentag and Fritz, 2007, Journal of Occupational Health Psychology, 12(3), 204–221). A strong list of chargers usually has some of each.

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What the audit cannot tell you

This is a self-check for reflection. It maps what you notice; it does not measure your body's energy, and the ranges for running down, about even and charging up are a plain reading guide, not norms. If you are tired most days whatever you change, and rest does not refill you, see your doctor. Poor sleep, illness and low mood can all show up as constant tiredness.

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What to do next

Save the audit and re-check in a month: the next audit starts from the same list, and the page shows what moved. If people are your biggest drain, your social battery and the introvert or extrovert quiz explain why. If nothing seems to refill you, find out what kind of rest you need, or build a dopamine menu of small things that lift you. When work is the drain that never lets up, the burnout test looks deeper, and the stress level test shows what has been weighing on you in the last two weeks. For invisible work at home, try the mental load test, and for the bigger picture, the wheel of life.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is an energy audit for yourself?

It is a list of the people, tasks, places and habits in your week, each rated by whether it drains or charges you and how often it happens. Adding them up shows where your energy goes. The useful part is the plan that follows: less of a few drainers, more of a few chargers.

Why does my energy drain so fast?

Usually because of small drains that happen every day, not one big one. Constant messages, meetings, a cluttered space or saying yes when you mean no add up across a week. An audit shows which ones cost you most, so you can cut, shrink or batch them.

What are common energy drainers?

Common ones are back-to-back meetings, notifications, admin you keep putting off, people who criticize or complain, crowded places, scrolling and screens in bed. But the same thing can drain one person and charge another, which is why the audit asks you to rate each one yourself.

How do I recharge my energy?

Recovery research describes four kinds of recovery: switching off from work in your head, relaxing, doing something challenging you enjoy, and choosing for yourself how to spend your time. Pick the chargers from your audit that match those and put them on set days, so they do not depend on time left over.

What is mental fatigue?

Mental fatigue is the tired, foggy feeling after long or demanding mental effort, when it gets harder to focus and to make yourself keep going. One leading explanation is that the brain weighs a task's expected reward against its energy cost and loses motivation when the cost seems higher. Breaks, sleep and work that feels worthwhile all help.

How often should I do an energy audit?

Once a month is enough for most people, or sooner when your week changes, like a new job, a move or a new baby. Saving each audit lets you start the next one from the same list and see which drainers shrank and which chargers grew.

Why am I tired all the time even when I rest?

Rest that does not refill you can mean the rest is the wrong kind for what is draining you, such as scrolling when you need quiet. It can also have a physical cause, so if you are tired most days for weeks, see your doctor. Sleep problems, illness and low mood can all show up as constant tiredness.

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