Probably not a narcissist

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Based on your answers, most of the reliable markers of narcissistic personality patterns are not present. That does not mean the relationship is perfect, or that no difficult behaviors occur. Every human can be defensive, self-focused, or selfish at times. The difference with narcissism is the consistency and the unwillingness to repair. Your partner seems to fall within the range of ordinary human flaws. If something is still feeling off, the issue may be elsewhere — fit, communication patterns, attachment styles, or unaddressed conflict — not a personality pattern.

What to do next

If something specific is still bothering you, it is worth naming. Being in a 'mostly good' relationship that has an unresolved dynamic is one of the most common reasons people take quizzes like this. Address the specific thing. Couples therapy, a journaling practice, or talking through it with Lovon can help you get clear on what is actually wrong.